Watch out for the Gotcha's

I highly recommend the book Whale Done! The Power of Positive Relationships, by Ken Blanchard. It shows us why we must accentuate the positive and not the negative. It's written in story form and based on how killer whales are trained at Sea World. When you are trying to train a killer whale you don't really want to focus on what they're doing wrong. They focus on staying positive and rewarding them with food and affection when they complete the right behavior. So why do we as people always want to find faults? Stroke our own ego, and make us feel better. Why do adults love doing that to their children? Just think about this for a minute, if your Child had the strength and size of a killer whale would you treat them the same? I don't think so.... so why do we? If you want to change behavior, start focusing on what they are doing right. The littlest thing will make the difference. How many times have you crushed your child's spirit? Stop reading this right now and go find your quite place and think about all the times you crushed your child's spirit and you will remember I can assure of that. Ok, I'm glad your back and I sure you feel bad. Good news, you can fix that by finding all the times you can say well done. The book called it Whale Done, get it. So start finding the good in everything and watch how much easier your life becomes. Think big and you will live big by finding the good in everything.